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| The more intense the relationship, the nastier the split.
分手, 從沒對你有什么怨言.
一直深信, 變心只因我不足夠.
從沒要求你向世界解譯 , 因我知別人怎看都不重要.
愛你的, 永遠會在你身邊. 假情假義的, 也不應在乎.
承認, 曾因你的謊言傷心和生气., 寫下來只想找個地方發泄.
如我的感受曾令你們不快樂, 那我就說聲對不起.
感受, 我會好好躲起來.
那罵我的電郵及電話, 對我朋友們的髒字, 也會停了嗎?
到了現在, 只是感到很累. 現在, 只想安靜.
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People immersed in the experience of romantic love often appear to bend reality to the will of their hopes and desires. But is idealisation the key to enduring happiness, or does it leave people to inevitable disappointments and disillusionment?
In a study done by Murray, Holmes & Griffen:
It is proposed that satisfaction is associated with idealistic, rather than realistic perception's of one's partner. Individuals are happier in their relationships when they idealize their partners and their partners idealize them. A certain degree of illusion may be a critical feature of satisfying dating and even marital relationships.
No wonder love is blind~~
update to comments: I agree idealization is great, it can bring u to a state of euphoria and sweep you off your feet. But if I knew my partner loved an illusion of me, how do I know they won't eventually see the truth? I can only afford to live in a lie for so long. And in the long run would I realli be satisfied with someone who can't learn to love me for who I am? but that's just me^^
所以, 一直以來, 有你愛我,已足夠 
You ask me what's more important, your life or my life and I will answer 'Mine.' and you will walk away never knowing that you are my life.

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| 彼此彼此啦 
當她橫刀奪愛的時唌@ 你忘了所有的誓言 她?shy;起愛情勝利的旗幟 你n我選擇繼續愛你的方式 你曾經說n保護我 只給我溫柔沒挫折 可是現在你總是對我迴避 不再為我有心事而著急
人說戀愛就像放滓憛@ 如果太p較就有悔恨 只是你抭ㄖ悀F告訴我 放縱的愛也會讓天空劃滿傷痕
太委屈 連分手也是讓我最後得到消息 不_ 因為我對情對愛全都不曾虧欠你 太委屈 還愛著你 你卻把別人擁在懷裡 不能再這樣下去 穿過愛的暴楞B 寧願清醒忍痛地放棄你 也不在愛的夢中委屈自己
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| There comes a point where you will settle for the one who loves you instead of the one you love. I have come to realise, I will never be good enough for you will I?
There are those people who will always adore you, and love you for everything you are. Those who will never be short of a good compliment, to a point where to wonder how much of it is real.
And then there are you who will be cruelly blunt with the truth, and tell you everything you don't want to hear. Yet these are also those who have the real power over your happiness.
But when a life crisis comes along, how do you strike a balance between the two? Would you rather have an unreal happiness than a real depression? Sometimes..it's just nice to get lost in your dreams.
所有親友, 謝謝你愛我.
所有背叛過我的人, 謝謝你考我真正的友宜是什么. | | |
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